Joyous and Generous

I knew Don Rosenfield for almost 53 years from the time he joined the Sigma Alpha Mu fraternity as a freshman at MIT in 1965. I was a sophomore. I have enjoyed reading the tributes to Don from students and colleagues on the website, and looking at the photos that have been posted. The stories speak to the generosity of his spirit and brilliance, and his broad smile (we referred to them as “SEG’s”) are a window to his joy. I challenge anyone, anywhere to find a photo of Don when he isn’t smiling!

Don possessed an “unusual” sense of humor. He would create quirky scenarios, and smile just as vigorously 50 years after the first telling, for what would might be the 500th time. One out of a dozen examples comes to mind. Don was convinced that the Red Sox had mislabeled Carl Yastrzemski’s uniform during his playing career. Yaz’s actual number, according to Don was 6.02 x 10^23. And of course, Avogadro’s number was “8”. When I visited the Baseball Hall of Fame in the mid 1970’s, I sadly reported back to him that they had still retired the wrong number for Yaz, Don laughed and took it in stride. Just this past summer, when I saw Don, I told him that I looked forward to taking my grandsons to the Hall of Fame in the next year or two. His comment: “Well, I certainly hope they’ve finally got the correct uniform for Yaz.”

Shortly after Don’s tragic death, I told Roy Shapiro, whom Don loved and revered, that Don was such a giving individual, that if you asked for the proverbial shirt off of his back, Don would refuse, making sure that the shirt he gave you was of the right size and to your liking. He led a full life, with humor, intellect and concern for everyone in his sphere- EACH AND EVERY DAY.. We all wish there were more days.

Grateful and Indebted

Despite his remarkable intellect, wit, and accomplishments, Don used his gifts to serve others versus himself. MIT and the LFM/LGO program changed my career and my life and Don is the single person most responsible for creating such an amazing opportunity for me and many others. From the first interview in 1995 to our last recent email exchange, his exceptional character, patience, and kindness had a big impact on me. I am ever grateful and indebted.

Thank you to Don for his amazing contribution to LGO

I want to thank Don for the immense contribution he made to LGO and thank him for being the person he was. As a student at MIT from 1991-1993, Don was the primary interface for me and my classmates. He was the consummate professional and truly cared about us and positively influenced us on our journey to help reclaim the Big M (as we called it back then). Don has truly helped influence every person that has stepped through LGO. The impact he made on me and others is felt around the world. Thank you Don.

Don unlocked my potential

I was lucky enough to have Don as my admissions interviewer. He only asked me one question: “tell me about yourself”. He smiled; he was genuinely interested. There are so many other Don moments like this one that I can look back to and see how much his kind intelligence inspired me to be the best version of myself I can be.

OK, second memory: he loved cars, as do I. We often chatted about horsepower per liter and things of that sort and deduced we had owned different cars with identical drivetrains, his made by Ford, mine by Mazda. One day he finally bought himself a gorgeous all-wheel drive BMW sedan, my favorite! The day he got it, he and I snuck out of a recruiting dinner to take it for a spin down snowy Storrow drive. Six speed manual of course. Don, you’re the man 🙂

Remembering Don at the Harrison Smith Award

I will always remember the way Don had to make people feel special. In group settings he would turn to me and share some piece of information. It was usually something simple like an observation about yesterday’s Red Sox game or an update on a classmate but the excitement in his voice and the smile on his face made it seem like he was sharing an inside joke that only the two of us knew. I was fortunate to connect with Don each year when I returned to campus to help him deliver the Harrison Smith Award. This is a scholarship given each year in remembrance of our LFM ’99 classmate who died shortly after graduation. Don was Harrison’s thesis advisor and each year he began the presentation by welcoming the Smith family and sharing his memory of Harrison. Afterwards we would all go out to dinner with the awardee, past awardees and the Smith family. Over the past almost 20 years, Don has never missed a year. Observing how happy he was, surrounded by his students and the Smith family, it was clear to me how much Don loved not only Harrison, but each and every one of us.

Welcome

Don had the innate ability to make you feel welcome and at home. From the moment Haley and I set foot on the MIT campus, Don made us feel like a part of the LGO family. He also had a tremendous memory. Don would ask about your family, friends and hobbies in a great bit of detail as an old family friend would. Even though, it may have been a couple of years since you last spoke. Finally, he was genuinely concerned about how you were doing. He understood that successful leaders needed balance so your personal well-being was of the upmost importance to him. Don will be truly missed.

Remembering how Don made me feel

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What I remember the most about Don is the way he made me feel – special, welcome, worthy and part of something bigger. The feeling started at that first unforgettable acceptance call. That transitioned into his friendly, welcoming grin every day on campus. When I wondered if I could survive the rigorous curriculum at MIT, Don made me feel like I belonged. Many years post-graduation, his warm hug and caring questions about family and career told me that he still cared for each of us dearly. I have never met anyone like Don, and he embodies all of the best feelings I still have about LFM.

Yes!!! Boston Red Sox Win the World Series!

Lots of great memories of Don but the one I always remember first was on October 28, 2004. Don had an extra bounce in his step that day because the night before the Red Sox finally broke the curse and won the World Series! Don proudly kicked off the Alumni Conference sharing the front page of the Boston Globe. As a diehard NY Yankee fan that day was difficult but it brings a smile to my face every time I remember the joy it brought to Don to not only have the Red Sox win but to be able to share it with the LGO alumni at the conference. Thanks Don for all the Yankees-Red Sox debates we had during my time at LGO and after. I will forever think of you every time the Yankees play the Red Sox!

Honest, quirky, authentic – He means what he says.

My introductory experience to LGO was a little bit different from most. Nearly every student can tell you about their famous call from Don welcoming them to the program. It wasn’t quite the same for me. It was a Friday afternoon when I received the call from Don. He told me that they really wanted me in the program but that they weren’t sure that the engineering school was going to take me and he’d let me know the following week. My life was in limbo for a weekend before I found out that I was accepted. It wasn’t quite the call I expected. It was, however, a reflection of Don’s intellectual honesty, quirkiness, and authenticity.

While in LGO, I continued to see Don’s intellectual honesty and quirkiness. Don loved operations and he loved teaching students operations. He was always attentive during plant tour, seeing every kind of manufacturing operation from cars and Boeing airplanes to Kodak film and semiconductor equipment. As my thesis supervisor, he loved surveying the operation and helping identify a meaty problem to work on as part of my thesis – even in a cosmetics warehouse for Procter and Gamble. His enthusiasm was contagious and to this day I still love going on factory visits as well.

Since graduating, I’ve been fortunate to see Don in Boston for recruiting and conferences and in the Bay area for alumni events. I’ve appreciated his authenticity and genuine caring. Most recently, as I was in the process of searching for a new job and feeling a bit lost, I remember Don telling me, “Let me know how it goes” and I knew that he really meant it. In education and in work, it is rare to meet someone who generally cares about your well being when the intersection of your lives together have long past.

To his family, he talked about you with us and was proud of you. Thank you for sharing him with us so that he could impact our lives as well.

Always there for us

There is a small group of us from the class of ‘93 that gets together once a year somewhere in the U.S., and has every year for the last 10 years. During one of our first trips, we were headed from Seattle to eastern Washington on a small bus. Someone had the great idea to call Don and include him in our experience. So we did – we called him. He picked up the phone immediately, recognizing that it was a former LGO student, and proceeded to talk to us about the trip, some things going on in our lives – always asking terrific questions, of course – and shared a little bit about his own experiences.

Only later in the call did we learn that he was actually in Asia, that we’d woken him, and that he was perfectly willing to engage in a few minute long conversation with us, because he enjoyed it so much. That epitomizes the kind of friend Don was to all of us.

He was selfless with his time, always willing to help, and always asking questions about what was happening in our lives first. From then on, every year, we would call Don wherever we were. And he would always answer the phone.

View Jeff’s tribute video.

Don’s superhuman power

When it comes to professors, Don was in a class of his own. Don had a superhuman power of helping others thrive — it went far beyond teaching and research. He embodied all the wonderful qualities of a professor, mentor, citizen, and friend. More than any one particular instance, it was all the interactions together that made Don so special. Whether it was a serious conversation, shooting the breeze, commiserating, joking around, consulting, collaborating, sympathizing, mischief making, (occasional 🙂 admonishing, or advice giving — Don had a gift for giving people the confidence to be themselves. I feel extremely lucky to have been one of Don’s students, and even luckier to have enjoyed his friendship.

Plant Trek with Don

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What I remember that day was working with the team on our analysis of one of the partner companies. The thing that impressed me about Don in this was how clearly he foretold the situation at this company years in advance. Everything we were describing, good/bad/interesting were things Don knew years earlier would be the case. Nothing we said could surprise him or even seem new, yet he didn’t let that come across as “the all-knowing Don”. He and Shoji both were clairvoyant, yet humble. Their keenest interest was in seeing our ability to learn.

A huge impact on my life

I will always vividly remember the moment when Don called me over 20 years ago to tell me, personally, that I had been admitted to the then-LFM program. During my two years in the program, it was always evident how much Don cared about his students, their lives, and their success. He continued demonstrating this every time I saw him in Cambridge or at an alumni event. He never asked a generic, “How are you?” question; it was always something concrete that demonstrated his ability to remember details about my life and career, amongst all of the lives he touched during his career. His teaching, his leadership, and his advocacy will be missed.

A palpable sense of joy

I think this photo speaks volumes about the genuine love and affection LGO / LFM students felt for Don. It just happened to be me in the spot helping to hold Don up on the day of my class’s graduation, but it could have been any other student or alum in my place, with the same palpable sense of joy.

I believe there had been some scheduling mishap for our class’s official graduation photo that day, so the one with Don being held up by my classmates and me was an impromptu photo. I don’t recall who suggested holding Don up for the photo, but I do recall there was enthusiastic and unanimous agreement that this was a really good idea. Don, of course, was game and didn’t hesitate a second to play along.

That moment of joy encapsulates so much about Don and his positive impact on so many people. From day 1 of the LFM program, we never had any confusion about who our biggest advocate and cheerleader was. Don’s enthusiasm and affection for the students was infectious, and the students loved him back.

Getting The Call at 2AM in Israel

When my phone rang it was 2am in Israel, everyone at the house was sleeping. On the phone was Don, with his famous “Don Call” to let me know I got into LFM. When I told him it was 2am in Israel, he just said “well, I know, but I thought this call with these great news was the one you would want to wake up to anytime.” And he was 100% correct !

A short tribute to a man who touched so many…

Of all of the many great memories of Don, I will never forget receiving a phone call from him on a Sunday afternoon at my house in Virginia, sometime in the Spring of 2004. I just never expected to get a phone call…an email, a letter – yes. But a personal phone call from the Director! As I would learn, it was a window into Don’s mix of professionalism, personal attention to his students, and sincerity. A phone call most of us will never forget…

Seafood at Seaport Grille!

It was early April 2016 – a sunny day in Gloucester, MA. We had just wrapped up a good presentation to our Operations Action Lab host company, Gorton’s Seafood, for which Don had decided to join me and my project teammates. As we got ready to leave, Don turned to us and, with his heartwarming smile, said, “there’s a very good seafood restaurant next door – let’s go.” Don’s lunch treat at Seaport Grille is one of my fondest memories of him. As we waited for our delicious local fish and chips orders, Don pulled out a napkin and wrote down some operations management principles and equations to guide the next steps of our project. But, of course, in true Don style, he quickly made time to ask us how things were going outside of class. I remember thinking to myself how lucky I was – there I was sitting with, and learning from, one of the world’s best operations researchers, who also happened to be the father of the LGO program – all while enjoying some great New England haddock!

Don took genuine interest in people on a personal level – and that was one of his strongest leadership qualities. He always took the time to know our names and stories – and then somehow remembered all of them. I’ll never forget the number of times he stopped me after Ops-Lab class or just while passing by in E62 to ask how I was doing away from home, what Qatar is like, and what I wanted to do following graduation. I will always miss Don, but I feel so grateful to have met him during my time at LGO and learned from him. While LGO will not be the same without him, I am certain that the values he carried will continue to live through the many students he taught and mentored.

A true gentleman !

I co-supervised several LFM/LGO students with Don over the years and remember several trips, e.g. to UTC in Connecticut and great discussions during the long drives. Don had an uncanny ability to spot weaknesses in a project plan and see opportunities to make a difference in companies’ operations; he had a truly global perspective. He loved good food and to live life to its fullest. It was a privilege to work with Don, I will miss him.

The Call

I had just gotten home from dinner at my future in-laws’ house and I noticed I had a voicemail on my phone. I must have missed it during the dinner. When I clicked on the voicemail, my phone informed me that the caller was from Boston. “I don’t know anyone in Boston,” I said to myself. Then as I listened to the voicemail and heard Don’s voice everything came together. I felt obligated to return Don’s call and over the next week we played phone tag, only to eventually have him leave me a final message saying “Dave, no need to call me back. You’re in!” I remember the night of that call so vividly because it changed my life in so many amazing ways. I didn’t take as many courses with Don as some of the other students, but I took enough to understand just how amazing a teacher he was. LGO certainly won’t be the same without him, but I take some solace in knowing that his memory and values will live on in all of his students who passed through the program.