I began thinking about writing a blog post on my drive from Boston to Seattle for my internship at Boeing a few weeks ago. All I could think about what how crazy the last few years have been. A year and a half ago, my girlfriend and I lived in Atlanta. She was teaching pre-school and I worked for GE. Now, we’re married and Abby will be joining me in Seattle for the summer. First of all, I want to digress and comment on planning a wedding during LGO. There was one LGO that got married the first week of summer classes and there were two LGO 17s that moved to Boston, planned a wedding, and got married right after our first year. It wasn’t easy, but we found time to plan our weddings, get involved with committees and clubs, and make great friends during our first year.
During my drive, I had over 50 hours and 3500 miles of driving to reflect on the last year. From not being engaged and working at GE to being married and driving to my internship in Seattle, my life is completely different. I can’t say that it’s all been stress-free, but I have learned a lot during the last year. This might be a little cheesy, but here a few of the memorable lessons that I learned during my first year of LGO.
- Many LGO 17s would agree that the best piece of advice we heard during our first year came during a leadership and ethics seminar. Our speaker said that many of her LGO classmates lived outside of their means and ended up trapped in jobs/lives that they didn’t want. Her advice was to live within your means so that you can quit your job at any moment and transition to something that you truly love. I know that we’ve all heard this advice before, but it was refreshing to hear it from a successful LGO alum.
- Find a work/life balance – school and work are important, but so are staying healthy, meeting new people, and trying new things. I still struggle with this, but these are important things that will allow me to get the most of of LGO and life.
- It’s OK to say “I don’t know. Can you help me?” This happened very early on during LGO when I struggled with a few classes. I knew that LGO would be hard, but I didn’t expect to be completely lost during the summer. Luckily I learned to ask for help and my classmates and teachers were more than willing to take time to help me. I am continually shocked at the kindness and willingness to help that my classmates have shown each other throughout our first year.
- You do your best thinking by slowing down and concentrating. I realized early on at LGO that I like to think things through slowly and methodically. I also realized that it takes me more time than some of my classmates to recall certain things that we’ve learned. I realized during a leadership class over the summer that taking time to think about something can be extremely beneficial. We are always trying to multitask, especially at LGO, but I rarely found creative solutions or solved problems while multitasking. I believe that there is a time and a place for multitasking, but disconnecting and concentrating on the problem at hand can produce great results.
- Getting angry can make you temporarily dumb. This came up in a negotiations class that I took in the Spring. Our professor explained that getting angry temporarily changes your brain for up to 17 minutes so that you are actually temporarily dumb. I used to get really frustrated at work and learning about this side effect of anger/frustration/impatience made me seriously consider if allowing myself to get angry was impacting my work more than I realized.
Overall, the most important lessons that I learned from my first year at LGO were not technical. While I loved learning about supply chains, manufacturing, finance, etc., and I’m sure they will help me in my internship and post-LGO career, I was really shocked by all of the meaningful, non-technical things that I learned. These most certainly differ from all of my classmates’ lessons learned, but that’s the beauty of MIT Sloan and LGO. Everybody gets exactly what they need out of them.
Nick Arch, LGO ‘17
MIT Sloan MBA & SM in Mechanical Engineering